National Pay Back Your Parents Day

National Pay Back Your Parents Day is observed on November 20 in the United States. This day is dedicated to honoring the mothers and fathers who raised us, cared for us, and provided us with a bright future. It’s the perfect time to give back some of the love and kindness they have shown us over the years.

History

Since 1980, the United Nations has worked to raise public awareness about the importance of parenting. National Pay Back Your Parents Day was established in 2012, uniting loving children everywhere—no matter how old they are, they will always be kids in their parents’ eyes. While this holiday is similar to Parents’ Day, it carries the extra message of giving back twice as much attention to our loved ones.

A study published in USA Today found that parents in the United States spend an average of more than $200,000 per child until adulthood. That’s a huge investment, but parents always try to give their kids the best. In 1994, Bill Clinton signed a proclamation recognizing the vital role of parents.

Interesting facts

• Parents don’t know everything, and sometimes that comes as a surprise to their kids.
• Parents also like to have fun, watch cartoons, joke around, and play computer games.
• Parents can feel anxious about being adults, making mistakes, or solving problems.
• Parents love their child more than anything in the world.
• Many parents secretly have a favorite child—something you may only understand if you become a parent yourself.

How to take part

Take a day off and visit your parents, even if they live in another city. Help them with household tasks, buy groceries, give them a ride, surprise them with gifts, make their dreams come true, or send them some money. Organize a cozy evening, cook something special, and invite the whole family to join. Look through old photo albums together and enjoy some quality time.

When is National Pay Back Your Parents Day in 2025?

National Pay Back Your Parents Day is observed on November 20 each year.

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