National Housewife Day

National Housewife Day is observed in the United States on November 3 each year to honor women who maintain cleanliness in the home, raise children, and create a welcoming atmosphere of comfort and care. Often, the hard work of housewives goes unrecognized, despite the fact that many work seven days a week.

History

The origins of National Housewife Day are unknown, but it’s clear that whoever created it understood the importance of recognizing the efforts of housewives. Stories abound of husbands coming home from work and overlooking the many tasks completed throughout the day—dinners prepared, laundry done, and a tidy house—without acknowledging the labor involved.

For centuries, housewives have played a vital role in family life. In the 19th century, wealthier families allowed women to stay home, while others sought paid work. By the 20th century, many couples decided the woman would focus on raising the children, while the husband provided for the family. Today, society increasingly recognizes the value of housework, and men are more involved in sharing household responsibilities.

Interesting facts

• Housewives spend an average of 90 hours a week on household chores, and this number continues to rise.
• The term “housewife” first appeared in the 13th century.
• In ancient Greece, a wife was not accepted into her husband’s house until she had given birth to her first child.
• In medieval Europe, housewives were not allowed to divorce their spouses.
• Sigmund Freud claimed that women were born to be housewives and considered women pursuing a career to be neurotic.

How to take part

Show appreciation to housewives you know by sending flowers, sweets, or thoughtful postcards. Consider giving a certificate for a beauty salon visit. If you live together, share the household chores and give them a well-deserved break. You can also watch (or re-watch) the series Desperate Housewives, which highlights the lives and challenges of women who stay home while others head off to work.

When is National Housewife Day in 2025?

National Housewife Day is observed on November 3 each year.

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