Ex-Spouse Day

On April 14, Ex-Spouse Day is observed. This day is symbolic; it marks two months since Valentine’s Day. It’s a time to remember your former partner and the wonderful moments you shared. Let go of any unpleasant emotions and remember that love was once born in your heart for a reason. There were good reasons you were drawn to this person before life took you on separate paths.

History

In the UK during the 19th century, divorce required permission from Parliament, making it an expensive and complicated process for married couples to end their relationship. A century later, divorce became easier to formalize with legislative acts that regulated the procedure. Ex-Spouse Day was established in 1987 by Ronald Coleman, a resident of Missouri who, while suffering from separation, proposed creating a holiday as a form of consolation.

How to Take Part

1. Forgive and celebrate the freedom from a relationship that didn’t work out.
2. Grab a glass of wine and revisit the past to make the present better. There’s no longer a need to compromise or adjust to the routines of a former partner.
3. If you’re currently married, take this day to reflect on your relationship. Determine if there is happiness, love, support, and loyalty. If so, it’s worth fighting for that love.

Focus on the fun memories and happy moments from your last romance. Remember your wedding, visits from guests or relatives, and travels. Keep the positive emotions alive.

When is Ex-Spouse Day in 2025?

Ex-Spouse Day is observed on April 14 each year.

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