Bhai Dooj

Bhai Dooj is a holiday dedicated to brothers and sisters. It is a day where relatives come together to pray for the life of their loved ones.

History

The phrase ‘Bhai’ means ‘brother’ in Hindi and ‘Dooj’ means ‘second day after the new moon’. The holiday originates from sacred scriptures which tell the story of Yama, the God of Death, and his sister Yamuna. According to the legend, Yamuna invited her brother to her home, and in return, Yama granted that any brother who visits his sister on this day would live a long life. This reunion came to be by modern Indians as a holiday of brothers and sisters.

Interesting facts

• Women without brothers worship the Moon God.
• Brothers and sisters put a sacred tika (red dot) on each other’s foreheads.
• Sisters prepare treats and gifts for their brothers.
• The ceremony is often attended by children over 5 years old.

How to take part

Bhai Dooj consists of many rituals. Women will set a magnificent table with sweets and delicious food, and brothers will prepare memorable gifts as a token of love. The festival is an opportunity to come together and express love and gratitude, and to pray for one another’s well-being. The whole family, from different generations, is invited to take part in the celebrations.

When is Bhai Dooj in 2024?

Bhai Dooj is observed on the second day after the new moon in the Hindu month of Kartika, which usually falls in October or November.

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