Black Love Day

Black Love Day was created to highlight the equality of all people, regardless of race, when it comes to the world’s strongest emotion—love. This day unites hearts from every background, encouraging people to forget their differences, set aside societal inequality, and look beyond public opinion. The holiday is celebrated each year on February 13.

History

The idea for Black Love Day came from Ayo Handy-Kendi, a well-known author and activist who experienced years of discrimination. Despite facing harsh treatment, she never lost faith in love and hoped to make the world a kinder place. Nicknamed “Mama Ayo,” she endured personal tragedy, including the loss of her beloved son, which strengthened her resolve to promote healing and support.

In 1993, Mama Ayo proposed Black Love Day as a way to bring people together and inspire a sense of compassion and unity. She emphasized the importance of showing love to the world and especially to those who have suffered from discrimination. The official greeting for the holiday is “Nya Akoma,” meaning “take the heart,” symbolizing selfless kindness without expecting anything in return.

Interesting Facts

• This holiday is especially significant for those who have faced racism and discrimination. The experiences of people of color, particularly in the United States, can be difficult for others to fully comprehend.
• Mama Ayo was an advocate for non-violence and believed in peaceful solutions to conflict, a belief shaped by her own life experiences.

How to Take Part

Don’t stand on the sidelines—on Black Love Day, make an effort to show kindness and love to everyone you encounter. Remember, everyone has a story, and some may be struggling in silence. Practice empathy and reach out to help those in need, especially African-Americans and other marginalized groups. Share supportive messages online using #BlackLoveDay to spread awareness and positivity.

When is Black Love Day in 2026?

Black Love Day is observed on February 13 each year.

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